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Trying to Live!'s avatar

This was so beautiful to read.

Thank you so much for putting this together.

More people really need to know how harmful posting every single life moment can be.

It's even more annoying and harmful when someone captures you and posts it on their social without your consent.

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

Thank you so much 🐣💖. And yes you're right. It happened to me. And I told her, I don't appreciate that. She never did that again

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Trying to Live!'s avatar

It's so not cool.

But some don't still listen.

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

true.

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Angel Oyadonghan's avatar

Omg I loved this, every single bit of it felt like an investigation trying to pry me open, trying to make me see the murky truth.

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

Omg thank youuuuu 🥹💖

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Lara's avatar
7dEdited

The dangers of social media are slowly outweighing it’s good sides

Kids don’t play in the sand anymore

They’re glued to tabs all day long

It’s sad to see because there’s too much internet exposure now

You can’t exactly filter what your kid sees or doesn’t see

There’s so much you can do

It’s really crazy how the world has changed

Knowing when to draw the line

Share without sharing too much

It’s all a blur now

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

Even your comments are poetic girl 😭. And yes omg. I feel so sad for the kids now, we used to play outside. Without even realizing, it was the best time of our lives...

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Lara's avatar

😂didn’t realize that

It really was

The saying you never really know the value of what you have until you lose it

It’s so true

Also sorry about your bad experience

I’m just reading that part now

That must have been really scary omg💔

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Lara's avatar

Oh no

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

Aw thank you. It was bad. But I got over it. Wish someone would get that phone away when I was 14 tho 😭💀

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Lara's avatar

Thank goodness

Real though

Can’t think of any real worthwhile stuff I did with my phone at 14

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

Girl I was talking to people twice my age 😭, and calling them friends

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Lara's avatar

😂😭😭😭

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Patricia's avatar

Good read. I am an open book online. And I should know better. I work in IT. Ive heard some horror stories for real. I think the pandemic didn't help. I do enjoy our chats though....when we cross paths.

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

I think so many people can relate to this. Social media has become our second home and most of the time, we don't even pay attention to our privacy, which can be really dangerous

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Patricia's avatar

The really dangerous thing. You see it a lot on Facebook. The dangerous thing is all the posts that are really social engineering. Asking you the same backup questions you'd be asked to secure say your credit card account. It's scary.

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

True. I've seen so many scammers on Facebook, it's scary.

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RJ Sykes's avatar

This was a powerful read and I totally agree! I think I am one of the few who feels no need to share anything personal online. I write about something I truly enjoy, and it’s not about myself. But I have seen just how much dirty laundry gets shared online, no boundaries, and the trolling too. Perhaps it would do society good to be disconnected from the online world now and again. We were lucky to grow up without the internet.

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

Agreed. I can't imagine growing up with TikTok. It's so sad to see. Kids don't live like kids anymore, it's almost like they wanna grow up faster. And media has an effect on that. We never cared about what we look like when we were 8 years old, but nowadays they do. Because social media exists.

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RJ Sykes's avatar

Yes, I see it all around. Ideally, they shouldn’t be allowed near a mobile phone or the internet until 18. But that’s my view.

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

I think so too. I've seen 11 years olds on the internet and when I asked where their parents are or that'd be dangerous for them, they usually said, "idc, I'll be fine" or "it's none of your business."

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RJ Sykes's avatar

It's the equivalent of letting them roam around strangers unsupervised in the real world. Scary really.

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

True and it's scary. People look at Bundies, Dahmers and think that it's scary. But we have something even bigger. No one needs to stalk you in real life anymore, they can track your entire existence online

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RJ Sykes's avatar

And even then, so much of what we see and hear on TV and the media is untrue and exaggerated anyway.

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𝓐fra 𝓜asud's avatar

So so so so true

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Zəhra Üzeyirli's avatar

Thank you!🙏🏻

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